@tone The VOE adapter doesn't need any driver. Your computer must be capable to maintain 2 network connections simultanously which isn't possible on lots of non-business devices. The Mongoose/Super J2534 drivers can be found here https://d5t5.com/sw/J2534_Driver_x64.msi
The Super J2534 will also work for your car.
To reset the on call message you will need to visit a volvo dealer or someone with an official VIDA subscription. You need a software download to reset the VCM with part number 32398268. This isn't possible with Vdash.