Thanks for sharing this.
My personal recommendation is to use a dedicated computer with as less as possible 3rd party software installed. Especially no 3rd party antivirus, security, firewall and VPN software. As those clearly interfere with the vehicle communication. The lesser useless running background processes, the better.
Using your cluttered everyday machine for stuff like Vdash or VIDA is always a bad idea.
And Vdash most probably has some sort of anti tampering routines. It most likely detects software like Wireshark or the Npcap drivers and crashes on purpose, to prevent reverse engineering of how Vdash works.